Words Aren’t Necessary

I live with a three-year-old who can say three words. She loves telling people “bye-bye.” And she can answer yes and no questions with a “yeah” or a “nah.” But as far as her vocabulary that’s about all she has. I talk a lot to her during the day. And she ‘talks’ in her own way. Well right now she’s in her screaming phase where she literally screams everything. And telling her to be quiet only makes her louder, so that’s fun. She has a clear “ah” scream and she loves making the “o” noise. See her in the picture below. In the photo shoot she wouldn’t stop saying “o” so we just rolled with it. It’s a new sound, and new sounds are so much fun!


Even though Abigail cannot communicate in words she is very expressive! I tell people a lot that even though she is not able to communicate verbally, she can definitely communicate in her own way. Her nonverbal communication is on point! Yes, she knows a little bit of sign language but that’s still new too. And of course, she can’t do a lot of signs correctly because her little fingers don’t have the coordination they need to do true ASL signs. But Abigail does not have a poker face. What she thinks and feels shows up in those big blue eyes and little lips. Most of the time she is joyful – a smile spread across her face or a laugh to brighten everyone’s day. But when she is tired her poor eyes get red and blue shadows appear under her eyes. When she is sad or hurt her bottom lip puckers out. It is about the cutest thing ever, but she just looks so pathetic. When she is frustrated or impatient she will holler at you to hurry up. When she is scared she reaches up to cling to your neck and she gets a death grip on you. By looking at her face you can see what she is feeling, or if she likes something or not.

As always, Abigail is my normal. I’m used to toddlers not talking. I’m used to wondering what she is thinking or what she wants to play with or even what she wants to eat. Thankfully Abigail is easy-going and not too picky so she is pretty easy to please. We are trying to teach her how to make decisions by choosing between two different options. Making a choice isn’t her strongest point since her whole life other people have done everything for her. So when people ask me how do I know what she needs or what she wants, my best answer is that I have spent every day for the past three years with this girl and I know her better than anyone. I know how to get her to eat and drink when she pushes things away. I know how to distract her before she gets too angry. I know how she works best and what she likes and doesn’t like. Even though she cannot speak, I feel like I know what she needs. Her smile on her face all the time shows me that she seems to be okay with our system.

I do hope she continues to grow in her vocabulary and one day can speak and choose and be more independent. It would be wonderful to hear her little voice, and hear what she is thinking. To hear her say “mama” or to have her ask me a million questions. As she gets older communication will become harder and much more needed. I never know if she is sick or if something hurts. I will never know if she had a good day at school or what happened that day. I will never know her favorite color or what she wants to play with.

But a friend once commented that maybe Abigail is teaching us that words aren’t necessary to express love. I love that! So often I talk too much, and I’m not even a big talker. I’m a very quiet person and I would much rather be by myself or with a couple of people than a crowd of people any day. But we often use unnecessary words to fill holes and gaps. But precious Abigail doesn’t have words to use, and she fills a room with her presence instantly. People are drawn to her. Strangers are always coming to speak to us while we are out and about. When I am crying over something silly on a television show, Abigail will come right over and crawl into my lap to give me a hug. Those precious hugs make me laugh every time. Abigail hugs hold so much love in them! They are my favorite things!! So often we confuse love with a feeling. But love is so much deeper than what you can feel. I love a little girl who cannot even talk to me for no other reason than because she is mine. She has never said “I love you.” She has never given me a gift. She has never done anything for me. But she expresses her love with hugs, with smiles, and with that quiet, strong connection we share. A connection I could never begin to explain, but it is present and it connects me to my daughter in a very strong way.

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One of my most favorite pictures of us!

I am thankful words aren’t necessary. I am thankful Abigail is teaching me how to listen with more than my ears. She has made me better because of it. I notice so much more because of her. I have learned love is more than words and feelings. And while I can’t wait for Abigail’s next words, I am also ready to grow in our connection and keep learning to communicate with her in our own way. I want to learn all I can about her and what she needs. We are entering into new waters as she continues to grow and mature. It is scary and exciting all in one. She is quickly entering sassy toddlerhood. There will be things that will have to change and so much learning as this new chapter begins. But I know we have made it this far and together we will figure this out too. Because while words aren’t always necessary, community and partnership are very, very necessary! And I have the best little partner in crime any girl could ask for!!!


We aren’t super, but we make a SUPER team!!!



Quality of Life

This saying was never part of my vocabulary before having Abigail. Honestly, I never thought about a persons quality of life. It never accrued to me as I lived in a very safe, innocent bubble that people out there sometimes don’t have a very good quality of life. But what is quality of life? Who determines that? According to the all wise Wikipedia quality of life is defined like this,
“Quality of life (QOL) is the general well-being of individuals and societies, outlining negative and positive features of life. It observes life satisfaction, including everything from physical health, family, education, employment, wealth, safety, security, freedom, religious beliefs, finance and the environment.[1] QOL has a wide range of contexts, including the fields of international development, healthcare, politics and employment.” Of course Wikipedia goes on to explain that QOL should not be confused with health related QOL which they define as, “an assessment of how the individual’s well-being may be affected over time by a diseasedisability or disorder.[1][2]
So all those big fancy definitions are just ways society measures who is well off and who needs help. Who is rich and who isn’t. Who will have a good life and who won’t. And we have worried about Abigail’s quality of life since we started finding out about all her issues. We have no idea if she will ever leave home and be an independent adult. We have no idea if she will ever walk or sit or talk. According to the world Abigail’s quality of life isn’t that great. But I recently started following this mom on Instagram. Her daughter has Down’s Syndrome, and she wrote something so beautiful as she posted a picture of her precious daughter with the biggest smile plastered on her face. “I hope you see how much quality of life my daughter has. She deserves a good life and so do all the people that don’t fit the world’s definition of perfect.”
It made me step back and think about what is quality of life? When I talk about it I think about how Abigail will be able to function on her own as an adult. I’m already thinking twenty years down the road in typical Heather fashion. But what about today? Today, does Abigail have a good quality of life? Abigail isn’t your typical three year old in many aspects. She can’t do a lot of things she should be able to do. But I would argue that she has a great quality of life! 

Abigail’s two favorite toys right now. Batman from Daddy and her tray from her portable chair. She drags that tray all over the house!

Abigail is in great health. She is joyful all the time. She is beyond loved. She has no wants. She has no idea she is developmentally behind. She has a pretty good life. Right now her quality of life is perfect. But so often I forget to live in the moment. I get so caught up with what tomorrow might hold that I forget that right now my girl needs me to just meet her where she is. 
So often we let the world define things for us. I listen to the world when they say my daughter won’t have as good as a quality of life than others. I begin to question if we are capable of caring for her. I worry what will happen to her if something were to happen to us. I have worries about what the future holds. What if we have another child like Abigail or even worse off than Abigail. I forget that today we are blessed. We have everything Abigail needs to have an amazing quality of life. I forget that today she needs me just to be her mom and love her. I forget to listen to Truth and not the lies. I forget that God has brought us this far, and He will continue to give us our daily bread. I forget that God is bigger than any diagnosis, any worry or any fear. These fears won’t just magically go away, but they don’t have to conquer me. I pray I always remember that Abigail does have a good quality of life. She is well cared for.  And even if ten years if she isn’t ‘normal’ she still can have a good quality of life. She still has purpose and a reason for the way she is. 

Mommie and me night when I painted her toes. I love my joyful little girl who is full of life!!!

Respite Time

Finding time for me in the midst of taking care of my little girl. How do I do it? How do i carve time out of my day to nourish my soul. Like many moms I feel guilty, or even selfish, about taking time to do things I want to do. I feel bad ignoring my child to do something fun or relaxing even just for a few minutes. I struggle in this area badly! But so often I crave moments away from Abigail. I need moments to breathe and unwind. So how do I find these moments of respite during our day? I am in no means perfect in this area. I am not supermom, or even close. I struggle with guilt, time management, and laziness on a daily basis. But in an ideal world these are the areas I would focus on for myself everyday. I often do not get to do all these, or even one of them in a given day but I feel like these are vital to find respite and time for me. I tried to keep them general, so these principles can apply to moms across the board. Of course, our life looks different from many others’ so please take these and know this is how I find respite. I hope they help anybody else who struggles in this area.

  • Time in God’s Word

I listed this one first, because without it all other areas in your life suffer. Of course, finding time to read your Bible and pray is tough. I used to spend hours in Bible study while I was in college. Now days I barely get five minutes. Study and reading looks different. It is a matter of what my priorities are. But I know when I am reading something, no matter how much or how little, I feel more encouraged throughout the day. Now days there are many study helps available. There are apps like ‘She Reads Truth’ and ‘First 5.’ There are daily bible reading Bibles that break up the Bible over a year. I wish I had more time in this area the most. I often feel like because I cannot devote the study time I want to it that I just shouldn’t do it, but that is a horrible lie. I am learning that five minutes is better than none. This season is one where I cannot devote hours to Bible reading and prayer, but I can find five minutes to read a chapter here or there. My five minutes happen right before Abigail wakes up. I can hear her shuffling, so I get up and get on my First 5 app, read my devotion for the day and then start my day! Find your five minutes and take time to nourish your soul.

  • Hobbies

What do you enjoy doing? Figure it out and do it. That’s pretty much what my husband tells me every time we talk about hobbies. I have always struggled with hobbies because I have never really had any. I like to read and craft and write. I have lately wanted to get into photography because who does not want to take great pictures of their kids? Jordan tells me to just do things I want to do. He encourages me to follow my dreams. But when do I have time to read a book or learn to take amazing pictures? When do you find time for hobbies? Instead of sleep when the baby sleeps advice, my advice for this one is have fun when the kids are sleeping. Abigail has not taking a nap in about six months, but she is in bed by 8 usually. So from 8-11 is my “fun time”. I usually clean up the house real quickly and then relax and sew or watch Netflix. While Abigail sleeps I make sure I take that time to do things I want to do. Cleaning happens while she is awake normally (I might do a post on our daily schedule soon so you can have an idea of how our day normally goes). I try to enjoy my evenings without her. Find something you like to do and just do it. Find time for your hobbies!


This was one way I found to encourage my soul. Family pictures. We do not get them a lot, but I loved this evening with my family – to just capture us where we were.

  • Treat Yo’self

This is one of my favorites! And it can be as simple as baking fresh chocolate chip cookies or as extravagant as going to the spa all day. We are on a very tight budget so my treats are small and simple – a small ice cream here or baking cookies at 10 PM and eating them all while they are still warm. Or taking a bath while Jordan watches Abigail after dinner. It could be a new shirt you feel pretty in. It is okay to splurge on yourself every once in a while. A little splurge brings joy to your life!


Hair cuts and pedicures are always amazing ways to treat yo’self!

  • Friendship

There isn’t much to say about this one because it is self-explanatory. But the Beatles once sang, “I get by with a little help from my friends.” So wise! Spend time with other women and moms. It is so encouraging to be around other women. Find friends that can pour into you and encourage you to be you. I am not great with friendships, but I know they are so needed. You don’t even have to see them a lot. Just having a girl time once a month helps.


My time with friends this month was going to this sweet wedding and catching up with some old friends! It was so nice to get dressed up and talk to amazing people!!!

  • Romance

I had to include this one because my husband is my best friend, and for me time with him trumps all these other things. But I want to spend time with him. If I haven’t talked to Jordan in a while I feel empty. So he is one of my ways to find time for me. Since Jordan works such weird hours, when he is home my focus is on him. Of course, a lot of these things can happen together. Kill two birds with one stone. As I write this post I am sitting on the couch and Jordan is in the recliner watching The Office. We are giggling away doing our own thing, yet being together. And that being said, I have to add a side note here – LAUGH a little each day!!! It definitely will help. Laugh at your kids. Laugh at yourself. Look up funny videos on YouTube or old videos of your babies. Just laugh and have fun and slow down!


DATE NIGHTS!!! It’s an amazing uplifter. Have regular date nights. If you need fresh new ideas check out The Dating Divas. Their website has a million ideas from stay at home to group dates to romantic dates to funny dates. I highly recommend following them on social media too!

  • Get Away

I do not mean on vacation. I mean if you want to take a nice long trip away from your family, do it! I would not mind going to the beach for a weekend alone. But since that’s not a realistic thing for many people, I am thinking on a small-scale. For me getting away means window-shopping at the mall or Target, or even a grocery trip by myself. We let grandma have sleepovers once a month with Abigail to give us a night to ourselves (and a morning to sleep in). Those nights without Abigail are so nice. We usually end up eating dinner out and watching a movie or binging on Netflix, but it’s our getaway from Abigail that I need to recharge. I like having a little time away from Abigail each week, even if it is just for an hour here or there. I miss her, but it is good for both of us!


My mom and I love going to Christian women conferences. This was our latest one we went to, and we are going to another in next month!!


  • Rest and Relaxation

This is really just a summary of the above six. But even if at the end of the day you just lie down on the couch and do nothing it is okay. Sometimes adding more things to your day like an outing or participating in your hobby is just more tiring. Do not add more to your day if it’s too much. Just relax, and find time for you. And it is okay to have a lazy day. That’s what I call them. We have had a lot of lazy days this summer because our schedule has been a little off, and my baby is going to preschool in a month. Lazy days mean no plans and no outings. A lot of times they include me watching television or a movie while Abigail plays. I don’t encourage lazy days a lot. But sometimes it’s okay to chill for a day. Relax with your family. The world tells us we must constantly be doing something, but that is such a lie. It’s hard to find a positive verse about busyness in the Bible, but you can easily find verses about rest, peace, and stillness. It is okay to sit, rest, and renew your mind, soul, body and spirit. Find your rest in God first, and the other things will fall into place.

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You are so important and do so much! Take care of yourself, and find joy in the small things!!!

Good not best

This quote just kept replaying over and over as I wrote this. We will never be perfect, so perfection is not my goal. BUT I do want to be the best, and so often I just do the good things to get by. But am I doing my best? I am all about imperfect progress. So my question for myself is how can I be my best for my family and for me?

Let’s Take a Step Back

We have been with Abigail’s physical therapist, Hallie, for over 18 months now. She loves Abigail and we love her! But last week she said something profound that made me take a step back. Abigail has gotten her ‘yeah’s and ‘nah’s down very well! Today, Hallie was working with her and everything was ‘yeah’ until Hallie asked Abigail to do some hard work. Then Abigail responded with a clear ‘nah.’ She can be a bit sassy at times. Hallie still tried to make her walk with her walker, but Abigail just wanted to pick it up and play with it. Hallie was thinking about how to get Abigail to stop and focus on working when she took a step back.

She told me, “Look how much we have put this girl through these last three months. In just a few short weeks Abigail has received leg braces, a stander, and a wheelchair. She has started horse therapy. She started taking steps. She is communicating more than ever. And that doesn’t even include all the work she is doing for occupational therapy. We are all so excited about her progress that we keep pushing her to do more and more. But Hallie asked, “why don’t we take a step back and let her soak in all she has learned instead of pushing her to do even more?”


We love seeing Abigail doing new things. We love challenging her and teaching her new tricks. We love stretching her to see what all she is capable of, but Abigail is not capable of saying ‘stop’. She cannot tell us to slow down. So we decided as a team to let Abigail have this month of July to breathe a little. Instead of introducing anything new we will simply work on the skills we are already working on. We want to give Abigail a firm foundation before we continually place new challenges and goals on her. In all our excitement for new and getting to the next step, we forget to slow down and let her catch up.


She pushes Pink Streak all over the house now. My mom got her the cutest, tiniest gloves ever to use with her chair so here we are practicing with them!

I am so glad Abigail’s therapists can come to me and we can work through these things as a team. I love having a team! Without Hallie’s step back, we would all have missed an important piece of the puzzle. The enjoyment stage. Taking the time to enjoy all the accomplishments and victories Abigail has won these last few weeks. We all forgot for a little bit that it is okay to sit back and rest. It is okay to sit back and take in all that has happened. It is okay to build a strong foundation. It is okay to enjoy the journey. And I am thankful I get to enjoy my daughter’s journey, for it is quite amazing to see where she has come lately!

We got braces simply for her to bear weight through her legs and hips. Next things we knew Abigail is up and taking steps. We got a wheelchair for her to go to school. Little did we know that she would be learning to push it herself the day after we got it. Abigail’s legs and arms are getting so much stronger! She is trying so hard to get on all fours and crawl. She is communicating so much better, and picks up on things instantly. She is so smart, and completely understands what you are saying even if she cannot fully respond. She is sassy, and ‘runs’ away from you now. She thinks she is hilarious and will joke with you. She cries when she does not get her way, and she loves to be the center of attention. In so many ways she is a typical toddler, and I am so glad!

I am excited to build all these skills Abigail has this month. I am excited to have fun with her and just spend time with her. I am ready to enjoy watching my child learn and develop. This is my last month with her before she starts preschool in August. She starts August 1 at a special needs preschool in our local elementary school. She will go every morning and get extra therapy there. I am so excited for her, but so nervous too! So this month we are just going to have fun and enjoy our last month of summer. I cannot wait to see what Abigail is capable of, but I am thankful for times to step back and enjoy the journey!

All About Daddy

My favorite things about My Man, Jordan. The man I plan to spend the rest of my life with. My baby daddy. My rock. My support. My constant encourager. I could make other lists just about things I love about this man! But in light of Father’s Day I tried to keep them on a more fatherly note. Happy Father’s Day, everyone!!!

1) We found out I was pregnant on Jordan’s birthday. I think he loved that birthday gift. He nearly tackled me in excitement when the stick said I was pregnant. I love that he was so ready and excited to be a dad. He always has wanted kids from day one, and I am so thankful for a man who loved his children even when they were almost nonexistent.

2) “It’s a girl.”

We just looked at each other and smiled when the ultrasound tech said that. I have never seen my husband smile that big either. He wanted a girl, and still wants a houseful of them. It was definitely a great memory! A daddy of girls. He is so good with her, and I hope we have some other girls to complete his all-girls dreams.

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They took a lot of naps together in those early days!

3) That moment he cried while Abigail was having test done at a day old in the hospital. At a day old Jordan loved that 7 pound baby more than anyone else. It was stunning to me how much he loved her and I knew I would be an amazing dad.

4) All those nights he would stay up late with her while I got some rest. He was the perfect partner in those early days. I had day shift and he had nights, and would come let me nurse and then take her back downstairs again. We loved our system!


5) Those sweet giggles only Daddy could bring out in Abigail. I posted a video of it on Facebook the other day. You will have to check it out if you haven’t yet. He could always make her laugh! Here’s the link for this video if you want to watch it. 

6) Wrestling time with daddy – Abigail loves it! She loves to crawl on him and ‘beat him up’. She loves to pull his hair and be tickled back. Of course, wrestling for Abigail means trying to desperately pull up on you while hurting you in every way possible. But it still is cute!

7) Abigail loves to tap her little hand against you. Abigail used to not want to hug Jordan. She’s getting better, but for awhile we couldn’t get her to hug him. So we started doing love taps, and it’s still the cutest thing. Abigail will crawl right up beside him and gently tap Jordan’s face or his stomach or his arm and talk to him. It’s how she wakes him up and I love it!

8) I love my twinsies. They looked alike from day 1 and still look alike today. But she has a lot of her daddy in her too. She is stubborn and independent and has the best sense of humor.


9) These last two are my sentimental thoughts, but the way Jordan fights to support us. We have been through a lot in our four years of marriage with Jordan’s career. We have not had a lot of good ‘luck’ as some would call it. But through it all Jordan has kept working even at jobs that he should never have to work. He has fully supported us for the last two years and I am so thankful he has never quit. He just keeps going for us and I know we are both blessed by his work ethic every day!!

10) Lastly, is the way Jordan loves me. The way parents love their children reflects so much of how the child will grow up. It impacts how the child perceives love and often it impacts their relationships with their future spouses. I am thankful to have a man who loves me. Who sacrifices for us. Who has committed to me his life and love. I pray our marriage stands the tests and trials that come, and that our love can be a model to our children that a good marriage can be had. That love isn’t a feeling. And that we are simply trying to reflect God’s love to them.


Now What?

A lot of special needs families get one big punch as they hear the diagnosis from a doctor that their child has special needs. Whether it’s in utero or when the child is four years old it is painful. No one wants to hear that their child is ‘messed up.’ No one plans to have a special needs child. Honestly, most people don’t even consider it a possibility. So when that diagnosis comes, when the news is heard, it is often not taken well. They wonder ‘what now?’. What do we do now? How do we do life with a child with so many needs? How do I live with crushed dreams or all this guilt? But I would dare to say life isn’t over with a diagnosis. Yes, life looks different, but there are amazing blessings in store!

But our story is a little different. We didn’t have one of those end all moments. Our news came in slow, sporadic moments at doctors’ offices. It started when Abigail was two months old with her vision. The pictures below are some of my favorites from when she was itty bitty. You can see how her eyes always looked up. That’s where our journey started. Today she is three and we still don’t know a whole lot more than we did then. But her eyes are slowly fixing themselves, and that’s a huge praise! Abigail’s diagnosis as of right now is severe developmental delay. It’s a blanket diagnosis until they can give us a real one. I can tell you a lot of things Abigail doesn’t have, but as to an official diagnosis we have nothing.


We were never told that Abigail had special needs. It just happened. It is like a mist that slowly crept up on us. We saw it slowly coming in the distance, and soon we were in it. It didn’t knock us over like a tidal wave. It wasn’t unexpected like a tornado. It simply came – slowly but surely. It took awhile for me to be able to say those words. My child has special needs. I think the first time I said it was in my first blog I wrote almost two years ago. It is painful, but more than that it is unknown. People do not like the unknown. I have had a lot of questions about what is wrong with Abigail or will Abigail ever talk or walk. I have no answers to these questions. We do not know what is causing Abigail to be the way she is. We do not know what her future holds. And that unknown factor makes it so hard to be able to talk about her and her special needs.


Abigail is a huge question mark. She could be completely normal in five years, or she could live with us when she is forty because she cannot sustain herself. She might never walk or talk, or even sit by herself. Or she could be an Olympic gymnast with an amazing story. We have no idea. We have no idea if it’s genetic or what has caused her to be the way she is. We know she isn’t a normal three-year old. We know she is improving at a snail’s pace. We know that she has special needs and needs a little extra attention. We know she is precious and wonderful and wants to do so many things! We know she brings blessings to our life everyday, and we are so thankful for her.

We have been so blessed on our journey. A lot of families hear the diagnosis and then ask “now what?” We never had to do that. Every time we had to take another step, find a new doctor, a new therapist, or start more paperwork someone was there to guide us. Our pediatrician was the first to help. Looking back I will be forever in debt for their quickness in spotting Abigail’s delays. Without them Abigail would not have received the early intervention that she did and she would be even further behind. We were clueless anything was wrong with her. Her pediatrician led us to start therapy at five months old. They got me connected to the right doctors. And then those doctors and therapists led us to where we are today. I have met fellow special needs moms that have been there and done all this, so they have helped given me advice and contacts to call to answer any and all my questions. We were never alone in this! For each new step someone helped us over the hump. I think that’s what has made this whole process easier on me. I have never felt helpless. I know I am giving Abigail the best care I can. I feel good about where we are and where we are going.


Our baby girl was cute from the start, but I am so thankful for those who caught her issues early. I was so blind to her needs, but they saw them and helped us in ways I might never know fully!

Yes, our daughter has special needs. But we never had to ask the what now question. We never lost hope in her. We simply take one day at a time. If I start thinking too far in the future it gets overwhelming. But day by day Abigail is improving. She is always trying something new and amazing us all. It doesn’t feel as awkward to say that Abigail has special needs anymore. Her needs don’t define her. Even a diagnosis wouldn’t define her. She has the ability to raise above a diagnosis or a prognosis. So now what? What do we do moving forward. We keep teaching her. We keep helping her strengthen her muscles. We keep loving her. And we keep watching her soar! Abigail’s future is bright, and I am so thankful for our journey and cannot wait to see what tomorrow holds.



Learning to color while in her stander. She has come so far, and I will share more about that in my next blog!

100th Post Celebration

Congratulations! You, my friend, are reading my 100th post. I began this blog two years ago just to share our story. Not a lot of people even knew we were going through anything with Abigail. We didn’t know much, but I thought it was time to share our small simple story. As more and more people gave me positive feedback I began to write more. Today, this blog is full of stories and updates and encouragement from my little girl. I went from writing maybe every other month to writing almost twice a week. I’ve learned a little. I’ve grown a lot. And I hope I encouraged someone out there.

I have great dreams for this blog. I hope to one day expand it into something bigger. Maybe my own company of sorts. I want to brand it, and help others who are going through the unknown. I want to share our story and let others know they are not alone. I hope to one day make this blog my job. I have a lot of work to do and even more learning, but I am excited where such a tiny idea will lead me.

I called this blog “Treasured Encounters” because so often the encounters I have with Abigail do feel like small tiny treasures I like to store in my ever-widening heart. I want to hide all these tiny, sweet moments and ponder them. I want to treasure every encounter! Of course, the name might change. The direction may lead to a wider audience. The appearance may enhance. But this tiny little blog has meant so much to me! In these short two years it has seen over 3,500 people! I have thirty followers who don’t even know me!! And I can’t wait to see where this blog goes next!

So in my 100th blog post I simply want to say thank you to my amazing followers, my friends and my family – you people! Without you this blog would have never happened. Without your kind words, your Facebook likes, your amazing feedback I would have never continued. I might not comment on every note, but I read everything and it all means so much to me. Now I am dreaming of more. I want bigger and better. So I am asking you tonight. What do you want to see more of? What do you love about this blog? What do you want to know? Any questions for me about Abigail? About having a special needs child? About starting a blog? How would you like to see this blog grow? Is there anything I need to change, improve, add? Please, drop your comments and suggestions or even questions below or message me or Facebook me. Let’s connect! I want to hear from the people who read these every week. And to say thank you for being so amazing I want to give away a very tiny prize. Trust me. I wish I could buy you all a car, but since I can’t do that I am giving away a cute T-shirt to a lucky winner.

I found this company on Etsy, and fell in love instantly. The shirt reads “Choose Joy”. It perfectly describes Abigail. She chooses joy every day, and helps me find joy in the small moments too. I love my joyful little girl, and I know so many of you do too. So one lucky winner will receive a free T-shirt to help spread our joy! For a chance to win all you have to do is leave me a comment here or on Facebook about how I can improve this blog. Again, read suggestions above if you’re drawing a blank. Everyone who leaves a comment will be entered into the random drawing. I’ll announce the winner June 18th! So please leave some love and some advice. Who knows you may be getting that awesome shirt in the mail soon!! I truly wish I could thank each of you personally, and send everyone a shirt. But stay tuned because this blog has big things in store (hopefully). Thank you so much again and good luck!